Wide stance for wide fender flares! 2nd gen V6 4.0?

Hello!
I'm building a performance truck 2013 Tacoma V6 4.0 a
I'm Installing a wide fender flare kit!
how to go wide in the rear without spacers? and is there front long arm suspension that doesn't give you lift?.
I would like to lower the truck about 3"
how about would you do this?
THANK YOU! here is an example below

 

Wider in the rear?

1. Wheel spacers
2. Super negative offset on super wide wheels
3. Custom extended rear axles/end.
4. Combination of the above

 

In that order of price too. It's much cheaper to do spacers/offset wheels before messing around with a custom rear axle or an axle swap

 

I would second higher offset wheels and wider. If your going performance and power ( twin turbo, built modded S/c) -38 offset 9-10 wheel will stick out a good amount. You may still need a spacer in the rear. You could swap axles and out a tundra or ford/Chevy. Big money go currey they have wider axles sets the ya re bank and nice.

 

I currently have three inch spacers I can throw in the rear but the front end is where I have issues I just don't know where I could get a long-arm suspension that will give me a 3 inch wider stance on each side and I don't want to lift it so either I can go tundra long-arm suspension or I might have to go with a adjustable cat and go as low as I can with a combination of adjustable coilovers and slam those as well...
you guys are a big help thank you very much I'ma keep doing research as you guys keep hooking me up with some knowledge and we'll get there eventually and when I do I'll throw down some cool pictures and treat everybody with the end result

 

like the idea of a tundra swap.
I can go to a pick a part and grab a cheap rear axle.
but I'm going 6" wider then tacoma stock.
not sure if that's long enough but I'm going to find out today as I'm going to a pick a part for goodies!..
what else would you suggest?

 

also would a tundra front arm suspension work also to widen the stands as a stock choice? I'm going to want something doable. since my store went up in flames and I ;ost everything.. I have not much money..
but I need to finish truck.
please help

 

Not sure why option I’m long AEM your referring to. All LT will raise the truck 3-4”. Not sure about track setups. I would assume wider wheels will cover a lot.