HELP!!! Lugnuts for XD Monster Wheels

Ok so I have my wheels XD Monster 18x9 and new tires 285/60/18 Cooper Zeon ZXT. I have drivin all over town ( Savannah, GA )to all the major tire places and they dont have the lugnuts I need to install my wheels. I have searched all over this site and google for the type of lugnuts I need for my new wheels and cant find anything. I know that if I install a regular acorn type lugnut its not going to engage enough threads on the stud, so with that being said I wasted my whole day trying to get my wheels and tires mounted
if any of you could show me exactly which lugnuts I need to get Id greatly appreciate it. Oh and my lift just showed up at the door as well Whoo Hoo!!!

I found these lugnuts on different thread so you guys think they will work? http://www.brandsport.com/grla-21138et.html

I also see how some people have changed to longer studs too, but wont that conflict with your spare if you ever needed it?

 

I have the XD Monster's also. I installed longer studs that I got from Napa. Here's the write-up that I used to help me with this mod. http://www.hunt4steve.com/05TacoExtLn.html Then I got some McGard lugs that uncluded a locking lug for each wheels. This setup works great. Hope this helps.

 

What about if you need to install your spare tire though? Are you SOL if you do, since the studs are so much longer?