2020 turn signal wiring question

I have a 2020 SR that I installed a custom grill. There are lights that are white DRL that can activate and flash amber when the turn signal is used. I need to find a source for both turn signals that is not hot when the parking lights are on. Does anyone have a suggestion where I can find a source for the turn signals? Any help is appreciated.

 

For your white input you should use a fused ignition source. If you have the small relay box next to the main engine fuse/relay box the source is there.
For your turn input use the rear turn signal wires on connector EB1

slots #3 RIGHT hand rear turn and #9 LEFT hand rear turn.
@Puppypunter sells a T harness for EB1 so you don't cut the OEM wires.

 

When the rain stops I will look into that. Thanks. I already have the white lights hooked up to a relay that works off a switch in the dash that is powered by a fused ignition source. Wanted to be able to turn them on and off whenever needed. I'll update after I check for the small relay box.